Kilmacow Parish

Once a loved one has died whoever has responsibility for making the funeral arrangements should make direct contact with the priest of the parish where the funeral is to take place. At this stage both the priest and the family can make preliminary arrangements that are convenient to the family and fit the availability of the priest, the church, and the church staff. In a growing number of parishes volunteers are involved in aspects of funeral planning as well as leading prayers and their availability also has to be taken into consideration. Many parishes for good reason have guidelines governing the timing and celebration of funerals. Many churches have local musicians and singers who are ready to assist at funerals and should not be passed over readily. Some church organs are very valuable and expensive to upkeep and repair and only experienced, designated people properly trained should use them.  Funerals in church can either be celebrated inside the context of Mass or with scripture readings and hymns outside of Mass. At all times the dignity and the purpose of the church itself as the house of God must be respected and all aspects of these liturgies should be in keeping with our Christian tradition, faith and culture. The church cannot be used like an assembly hall or a gymnasium or auditorium. The priest and parish staff are willing to assist families with the proper preparation for a Christian funeral liturgy or funeral Mass and endeavour to make this experience a comforting and consoling experience for the loved ones of the deceased.